Grab Life by the Balls
A blunt, practical guide for the moment when life falls apart and motivation is no longer enough to put it back together.
Caring for a Child with Sickle Cell Disease
A deeply personal examination of love, caregiving, fear, and anticipatory grief when a parent is caring for a child with sickle cell disease.
Where Love Meets Loss enters a form of grief that can begin long before death and live quietly inside caregiving for years.
Written from inside the emotional reality of caring for a child with sickle cell disease, the book explores the fear, uncertainty, exhaustion, love, and anticipatory grief carried by parents when serious illness becomes part of everyday family life.
It gives language to experiences caregivers often struggle to explain: loving someone fiercely while knowing love cannot remove every danger, trying to remain strong while privately afraid, and living between hope for the future and fear of what that future may bring.
This is not simply a book about illness. It is about what illness does to the people who love the person living with it.
This book is for parents and caregivers carrying the emotional weight of caring for a child with sickle cell disease or another serious chronic illness.
It is for the parent trying to remain functional through hospital visits, uncertainty, fear, exhaustion, and the private thoughts that are difficult to say aloud.
It is also for family members and people close to caregivers who want to better understand the emotional world that can exist behind chronic childhood illness.
Above all, it is for people learning that profound love and profound fear can exist in the same place.
The book explores anticipatory grief, caregiving, chronic illness, parental fear, emotional exhaustion, hope, uncertainty, and the burden of carrying fears that a caregiver may feel unable to express openly.
It also examines what it means to love a child while living with the possibility of loss and why caregivers themselves need language, support, and recognition for what they carry.